This Brad Pitt-produced, Nicole Kidman-narrated documentary about a few thousand of the Sudan’s “Lost Boys” coming to the US as refugees may be mainstream, but nonetheless a moving and striking portrait of being a foreigner in the US. The film follows 5 boys from a refugee camp in Kenya—where they had been confined to the camp for more than 10 years—to five years after settling (or rather, being settled) in various cities across the United States.
There are more than enough moving moments to fill a lifetime in this 2 hour documentary. Some highlights:
*An interview with one “boy” (who was by this time a young adult) when being asked his feelings using electricity for the first time in his life. His response: “I am a bit nervous to use electricity. I have never done so but I imagine it would be very difficult.”
*Scenes of saying “goodbye” to their campmates (There are over 10,000 lost boys still living in Kenya and the US granted only 2000 of them refugee status), with whom they fled their homeland in the south Sudan, walked thousands of miles after many of their family members were murdered, all the while burying their friends, who, along the harrowing journey, succumbed to thirst, starvation, lions, and illness. As one “boy” put it, “they are my family now. I will miss them.”
*Scenes from the plane on their way to the
US
: As the boys literally look as if they had landed on another planet, the flight attendant serves them their meals. They eat every crumb on their plate: they eat the butter straight, and even the hand wipe that comes with airline food (“that food tasted very strange.”).
*One Lost Boy, placed in
Pittsburgh
, went swimming at a public pool. While there, he plays with some local kids. He stands out dramatically: almost everyone there is white; he is exceptionally tall and very, very dark. This draws attention to the Lost Boys in the
US
almost always (especially in the suburbs where most of them are placed). Anyway, one mother is being friendly with the Lost Boy, and she says, “I bet life is so nice for you here. Isn’t it better here than where you’re from?”
*After being in the
US
several years, one Lost Boy says, “what is really hard for me is to understand that you cannot go up to a house and ask for a glass of water without arousing suspicion. You cannot walk up to a stranger and comfort them as they cry.”
One of the things that makes this film so interesting, other than the subject matter, is the stark contrast between wealth and abject poverty; extended family cultures and individualistic societies; and, despite those differences between the developing world and the “developed,” the extent of globalization. Even as the boys were talking about how electricity would affect them, they were wearing Chicago Bulls and Mickey Mouse printed t-shirts, and they all spoke English in addition to their native tongues. Even as the boys adjusted to modern amenities such as flushing toilets, refrigerators, and television, old habits die hard: a regular meal was Ritz crackers mashed by hand, mixed with milk and then beaten hard with a spoon.
Because it is a story of extremes, GOD GREW TIRED OF US is a perfect film to understand culture shock, the immigrant experience, and to begin to think about the similarities and differences in human beings around the world.
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